For my dear friends and readers, meet Tricia Williford, you're gonna love her!
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Let’s start with an invitation: I’d like to invite you to
stop being unhappy with yourself. To stop wishing you looked like someone else,
or that people liked you as much as they like someone else, or that you could
get the attention of people who hurt you. I’d like to invite you to stop
second-guessing all of your decisions and commitments, to stop wondering if
your life were different had you only chosen the mystery prize behind door
number two.
I’m writing to you working moms who think you’re not doing
enough to be present at home, and to you stay-at-home-moms—to those of you who
are unapologetically content at home, who worry about getting things right in
your long days with the little people who hold your heart; and to the ones
among us who miss working outside the home, who feel like you lost your
confidence somewhere among crumbs and dirty diapers. I’m thinking of you single
women who feel incomplete or not enough because you’re not married. I’m writing
to you single moms who balance more than you were ever meant to carry alone,
and to you women who live with a failure, a betrayal, or a loss that has stolen
every bit of who you thought you were.
I am inviting all of you, all of us, to a new conversation.
I’d love to invite you to stop hating your body, your face, your figure, your
hair, your freckles (or lack of them), your personality, your quirks. You’re
worth more than these self-imposed opinions. It doesn’t matter when you began
torturing yourself with criticism, but it needs to stop today. And here’s what
I’d love to convince you of right here, right now:
You can do this.
When you’ve finished reading this book, I hope you’ll think,
This book made me think and laugh, and now I feel like I can do this next thing
in front of me. I hope you’ll feel hope, courage, strength, encouragement,
presence, freedom, and confidence to move forward into your life with the
awareness that you were born for this. I hope, girl to girl and eye to eye, we
can remember that we are called to claim complete confidence.
Finding your confidence is a miracle. I know this because I
found mine. And when I looked hard at the woman I’ve become, when I finally
recognized the courageous warrior hidden in this frame, I was surprised by joy
and astonished by awe. I want the same awareness for you.
Join me, girlfriend. Let’s do this.
See you in the pages,
Tricia